Control feels safe.
It gives us structure. Predictability.
The illusion that, if we hold tightly enough, nothing will break.
But the truth is:
Control is often a mask for fear.
Fear of chaos.
Fear of pain.
Fear of the unknown.
But what if you loosened your grip?
What if you trusted the unraveling?
Some of the most beautiful things in life
aren’t planned, predicted, or protected —
they’re allowed.
Allowed to emerge.
To become.
To surprise us.
Control might protect us from the storm.
But letting go… might let us feel the wind.
What are you clinging to — and what might happen if you released it?
